YOU CANNOT FIGHT YOUR “SUBCONSCIOUS COMMON SENSE”
The subconscious common sense is what drives people to either continue to stay with their significant other or to leave. Your mind and thoughts can be your best and worst enemy. Most of the time it hits you after you get in bed and you find yourself starring at the ceiling thinking “why am I still here” (yes I know you that thought). That is our subconscious common sense speaking to you.
This thought uncovers all of your deepest inner views and you begin to weigh your options on why you are continuing to stay or if you should leave. It brings the lies you tell yourself to the surface. You have fallen so madly in love that even though your mind knows its best to leave, your body will not let you. You are trapped in dangerous love! You actually think that if you get out of that bed and walk out for good you are going to be missing out on something. But seriously what can you possibly be missing out on? You have given the individual all of your love, you have done so much for them and the gestures never bring you happiness but you do it because it keeps them around. Is that what it is? Do we put up with just about anything to stray away from loneliness? Will we go through the craziest measures just to have someone in bed with us? To have someone to call our own? But after a while doesn’t it become tiring and redundant?
If you are putting in all your energy to keep someone happy but the acts of making them happy gives you no satisfaction then something is seriously wrong with the picture. When true love is in the presence of two individuals, partaking in selfless actions for each other gives both parties happiness and gratification. It does not make them tiresome, lonely, depressed and sad. After they make love they are happy, energetic, relieved and all they want to do is be held by one another and bask in the love that they BOTH share for each other. But when the equality of love lacks, you will not receive the happiness of the nice gestures. You are more like a maid. You do all the cleaning, the chores and you keep the household in shape but really you are not noticed at all. Just a fly on the wall. And no one wants to feel indivisible to someone they love.
So I know I usually end with a great conclusion towards one of love’s great mysteries but this time I can’t. The only way to remove yourself from dangerous love is to get tired of it. Once a person gets tired of giving and receiving nothing but a good hump in bed they will never revisit that empty place again. So until you get tired of living dangerously in love all this blog does for you is open your eyes to the situation you are drowning so willingly in. Yes I said willingly. Because when you know what you need to do in order to help yourself and get out of a pointless relationship but you choose not to: you are willingly involved in B.S! So tell me, are you tired yet?
SO PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND DON’T BECOME TOXIC TO YOURSELF. Things like this have a way to fester in your life in the present and in the future, You must love yourself and learn to understand what kind of person you are. Be careful because there are people out there who pretend and there are people in the world like me who actually sincerely cares and can love a person inward and outward without a doubt in mind no matter what you do to me.
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