Author: sincerelywishes

Formal Introductions aren’t my cup of tea. I am a well educated young lady who is strong but easily broken when it comes to my image I have in front of people. I am very insecure and shy deep down but I do know how to have fun.

Expectations and Disappointments with A Brighter Outlook

Dear Expectations,

Less Expectation, More Exploration, And Trust

When expectations rule our lives, we set ourselves up for disappointment. The most important thing to learn is to release expectations about how to think life should go and approach life from a place of exploration. This opens up to experiencing things that are beyond disappointments. It’s okay to have goals but make sure to leave room for something even greater to come along.

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Subconscious – Inner Peace – The After Math

YOU CANNOT FIGHT YOUR “SUBCONSCIOUS COMMON SENSE”

The subconscious common sense is what drives people to either continue to stay with their significant other or to leave. Your mind and thoughts can be your best and worst enemy. Most of the time it hits you after you get in bed and you find yourself starring at the ceiling thinking “why am I still here” (yes I know you that thought). That is our subconscious common sense speaking to you.

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Growing Legacy in Love

She is a paradox. She is faithful and yet detached. She is committed and yet relaxed. She is gentle and yet tough. She is passionate but can also be platonic. She is sociable but also a loner. In short, she is predictable in her unpredictability…

Home Team Advantage:

Everyone has a home team. If you are unsure of what this is to think of it as the people you call when you get a flat tire or when something terrible happens. It’s the people who, near and far, know everything that’s wrong with you and love you always. These are the people who you tell your secrets, who get themselves a glass of water without asking when they’re at your house. These are your people, your middle-of-the-night, no-matter-what people. It’s time to start building your legacy and leaving your mark on the world. Pick your inner circle carefully because this will help you build your foundation and legacy.

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InToxicated with the Past: Letting go of past relationships and friendships. 

“Life never stops moving forward. Stay focused and never slow down for regrets. Smile forgive and keep moving forward.”

alone-on-a-swingOne shall never heal if they continue to revisit the past and open up old scars. Past relationships are the ones who help us define who we are and where we want to be. It should never hinder you from the blessings that are in your life in present time. Continue reading “InToxicated with the Past: Letting go of past relationships and friendships. “ →

Soulmate: Doesn’t Complete You. Soulmate: Inspires You to Complete Yourself.:. Motivate: Yourself

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A soulmate isn’t someone who completes you. No, a soulmate is someone who inspires you to complete yourself.

A soulmate is someone who does not judge you for your flaws. A soulmate is someone who sees your jagged edges, who sees the parts of you that have been weathered by love and by life, who sees the wars that you fight, and who chooses to stand beside you. A soulmate is someone who watches as you confront your scars from the inside; always encouraging you to heal on your own time, in your own way; always encouraging you to keep going. Continue reading “Soulmate: Doesn’t Complete You. Soulmate: Inspires You to Complete Yourself.:. Motivate: Yourself” →

What-if’s, Should-have’s, and If-only’s

If I had a Time Machine….

What is your universal truth? What determines the person you honestly are?

The What-if’s, Should-have’s, and If-only’s are everywhere. They plague the mind with skepticism and regret. They tend to enforce false ideas and, hypothetically, failure in one’s self-growth. What I intend to say by this is that every individual has disputed themselves with these questions and phrases at least once. This even includes the heroes or greatest of people. But overall, what causes the difference of actions pursued by each individual? What makes them successful? Continue reading “What-if’s, Should-have’s, and If-only’s” →

It’s Okay If You Don’t have All the Answers (You’re Not Supposed To)

Life isn’t supposed to be easy. You don’t reach a certain age, a certain social status, a certain position in your career, and suddenly have all the answers. There isn’t a secret potion, a lucky token, or even a prayer that will change the course of your life with a snap of your fingers.

Opposite of Rainbows & Sunshine

People always think your life is rainbows and sunshine but I have officially reached that point where I am going to leak it all.

Dear Inner Ability to Fight,

Everybody walk in life is different and you are faced with many trails and joyous moments. I’m at the point of confusion. One part of me like yeah this is where I want to be and the other is not so much in the mood for the foolishness that occurs. You know what I can spell it out for you my life is a comic relief of fuckery. I have good days like everyone else and I have bad days. I am fallen in routine to being something I have never wanted to be. Continue reading “Opposite of Rainbows & Sunshine” →

Outer Beauty

You may think that there is more to a woman than what meets a man’s eyes, but that’s not what NATURE thinks!

Accept it or not, our appearance on the outside has just as much to say about us as an individual as the person we are on the inside. Being shallow simply has nothing to do with it. When you look at someone for the very first time you automatically form an opinion of how they appear to you. Continue reading “Outer Beauty” →

TOXIC EXPRESSIONS

What constitutes as being dangerously in love? Is it doing more for someone than you would do for yourself? Is it loving someone more than you love yourself? Is it putting someone else’s happiness in front of your own? These are all acts committed when a person falls in love. Deny it if you want but let’s take a second to think about it. When you are in love and I mean REALLY in love, pretty much everything you do is in hopes that it makes the person you are in love with, happy. Continue reading “TOXIC EXPRESSIONS” →