Nice Girls Don’t Always Finish Last

Nice Girls Don’t Always Finish Last

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What does it mean to be a “nice girl”? We are all aware of the discernible definition of a “nice guy”. To make a long definition short, – it is a “YES MAN”. In the same sense, a nice girl can associate herself with the same brief definition – a “YES WOMAN”. Continue reading “Nice Girls Don’t Always Finish Last”

You’re Allowed to Leave

You’re Allowed to Leave

“If you ever find yourself in the wrong story, leave.” ― Mo Willems.

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You’re allowed to leave any story you don’t find yourself in. You’re allowed to leave any story you don’t love yourself in.

You’re allowed to leave a city that has dimmed your light instead of making you shine brighter, you’re allowed to pack all your bags and start over somewhere else and you’re allowed to redefine the meaning of your life. Continue reading “You’re Allowed to Leave”

Subconscious – Inner Peace – The After Math

YOU CANNOT FIGHT YOUR “SUBCONSCIOUS COMMON SENSE”

The subconscious common sense is what drives people to either continue to stay with their significant other or to leave. Your mind and thoughts can be your best and worst enemy. Most of the time it hits you after you get in bed and you find yourself starring at the ceiling thinking “why am I still here” (yes I know you that thought). That is our subconscious common sense speaking to you.

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Growing Legacy in Love

She is a paradox. She is faithful and yet detached. She is committed and yet relaxed. She is gentle and yet tough. She is passionate but can also be platonic. She is sociable but also a loner. In short, she is predictable in her unpredictability…

Home Team Advantage:

Everyone has a home team. If you are unsure of what this is to think of it as the people you call when you get a flat tire or when something terrible happens. It’s the people who, near and far, know everything that’s wrong with you and love you always. These are the people who you tell your secrets, who get themselves a glass of water without asking when they’re at your house. These are your people, your middle-of-the-night, no-matter-what people. It’s time to start building your legacy and leaving your mark on the world. Pick your inner circle carefully because this will help you build your foundation and legacy.

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InToxicated with the Past: Letting go of past relationships and friendships. 

“Life never stops moving forward. Stay focused and never slow down for regrets. Smile forgive and keep moving forward.”

alone-on-a-swingOne shall never heal if they continue to revisit the past and open up old scars. Past relationships are the ones who help us define who we are and where we want to be. It should never hinder you from the blessings that are in your life in present time. Continue reading “InToxicated with the Past: Letting go of past relationships and friendships. “

Soulmate: Doesn’t Complete You. Soulmate: Inspires You to Complete Yourself.:. Motivate: Yourself

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A soulmate isn’t someone who completes you. No, a soulmate is someone who inspires you to complete yourself.

A soulmate is someone who does not judge you for your flaws. A soulmate is someone who sees your jagged edges, who sees the parts of you that have been weathered by love and by life, who sees the wars that you fight, and who chooses to stand beside you. A soulmate is someone who watches as you confront your scars from the inside; always encouraging you to heal on your own time, in your own way; always encouraging you to keep going. Continue reading “Soulmate: Doesn’t Complete You. Soulmate: Inspires You to Complete Yourself.:. Motivate: Yourself”

Opposite of Rainbows & Sunshine

People always think your life is rainbows and sunshine but I have officially reached that point where I am going to leak it all.

Dear Inner Ability to Fight,

Everybody walk in life is different and you are faced with many trails and joyous moments. I’m at the point of confusion. One part of me like yeah this is where I want to be and the other is not so much in the mood for the foolishness that occurs. You know what I can spell it out for you my life is a comic relief of fuckery. I have good days like everyone else and I have bad days. I am fallen in routine to being something I have never wanted to be. Continue reading “Opposite of Rainbows & Sunshine”

TOXIC EXPRESSIONS

What constitutes as being dangerously in love? Is it doing more for someone than you would do for yourself? Is it loving someone more than you love yourself? Is it putting someone else’s happiness in front of your own? These are all acts committed when a person falls in love. Deny it if you want but let’s take a second to think about it. When you are in love and I mean REALLY in love, pretty much everything you do is in hopes that it makes the person you are in love with, happy. Continue reading “TOXIC EXPRESSIONS”

Inspired

Dear Inspiration,

Inspired: Or is it just an Illusion 

Education has always been instilled in me.

From childhood all the way to my adult life and this made me believe that my one and only fear was failure. On the other hand it took me many learning experiences to figure out I never really took time out to figure out what was best for me. Life’s misfortunes made me give up on many relationships and made my heart cold but in reality all I really needed to prove is that I have the determination to make a difference in another person’s life. Also, to love everlastingly and sincerely.

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